WHISKEY & SYMPATHY October/November

By Monika MHz & Gula, PQ Monthly

Monika and Gula:

I’ve been seeing this dude casually for a little while now. We don’t really hang out in public — frankly, we pretty much just hang out at each other’s houses and have …

WHISKEY & SYMPATHY August/September

Dear Monika and Gula

So there’s this gentleman who used to live here — we’ll call him Joe. Joe and I have known each other for a long time, and, when he lived here, were routinely part of each other’s social …


By Monika MHz & Gula, PQ Monthly

Dear Monika and Gula:


I’ve been dating this guy for a few months now–he’s sweet and lovely and we mostly get along. I’ve met his friends and we’ve started socializing in each others’ groups. But something strange …


By Monika MHz & Gula, PQ Monthly

Dear Monika/Gula,

I’m afraid to ask this question, but here goes: I’m a white gay man, and when it comes down to it I’m only attracted to other white men. I’ve done a lot of …

Whiskey & Sympathy: March/April 2014

By Monika MHz & Gula, PQ Monthly

Dear Monika/Gula,

I’m a gay man in my mid-twenties. I met a man and fell madly in love with him last November; however, recently our relationship has had some serious turmoil. The crux of the …

Whiskey & Sympathy: January/February 2014

Hey Gula and Monika,

I hate to say this, but: my boyfriend is really poor. He’s just made a lot of bad financial planning decisions over the years, and now he’s in huge debt and terrible financial straits. I really like …

Whiskey and Sympathy


Dear Monika & Gula,

I tend to be very outgoing and I like to meet lots of people. I am in a loving, monogamous relationship and I tell my girlfriend everything, but she’s a little …

Whiskey & Sympathy: October/November 2013

Dear Monika & Gula,

I’m a young gay guy, and a liberal one, too — I’d even call myself a feminist. Here’s the thing, though, that I’ve never really admitted to anyone: I’m very into rape fantasies, both in terms of …